Patterns

This is the one I didn't want to write, which is exactly why it needed writing. Everything else I've put out, I'm fairly comfortable with. This one means telling you the embarrassing stuff. The patterns I ran for decades without seeing, that cost me money, relationships and years. Here's the uncomfortable truth at the centre of it. Your life is not a series of random events. It's the same few events, wearing different faces, on repeat. The cast changes. The plot doesn't. Different job, same ceiling. Different woman, same fight. Different client, same drain. If it keeps happening, it's not bad luck. It's a pattern. And a pattern always has…